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Year End Review 2012

2012 could’ve sucked a lot worse, although personally it wasn’t bad. Wife’s job has settled down and going rather smoothly. I’m still getting work helping people with websites or setting them up. The dog survived his second major trauma. Last year around November he hurt his back so badly, we thought we were going to have to make the hard decision. He recovered. This year around November he developed an eye ulcer. Surgery was out of the question, so the vet gave us a shotgun regimen of eye drops. He’s recovered. Mystery is almost 14, so we know we won’t have him too much longer, but as long as he’s got decent quality of life, we’ll keep him around, though in the last two years he’s lost a lot of his sight and hearing and can’t walk as far as he used to. Aging sucks. Especially for dogs.

November could have been a lot worse. Thankfully, President Obama was re-elected, the GOP lost some seats in the House though still retain control, and they did not gain control of the Senate. The economy sucks less, but depending on what Congress does over the next two years it could suck even more again. Try as they might the GOP won’t be able to make things devastatingly worse, but they’ll certainly keep things from getting much better. If the Senate fixes the broken filibuster rules, it will be possible for that chamber to function again. We’ll know in a few days. Restoring the filibuster to when Senators actually had to get down on the floor and speak their objections is what I’m hoping for. What we have now makes it impossible for compromise to occur.

We did get to go to Missoula and Glacier National Park in June. It is a gorgeous park and I hope we can go back. Note- There aren’t that many glaciers left in the park. I think 15, down from a 100 when the area was made a park early in the 20th century. Some suggest we’ll have to change the name because there won’t be any glaciers left. We don’t need to because what we see was formed by glaciation. Lake McDonald was formed between two moraines. It should keep the name because of what created it, not because it has them.

I know it’s not much of a year end review, but just wanted to say a few things.

Bithidh sinn a’ phosadh

Bithidh Melissa agus mi fhìn a’ phosadh an-diudh. An uair sin bithidh ceilidh mór againn.

I’m getting married today, for the second time. It’s Melissa’s second too. We’ve been together since the end of 2003. We are going to have a big ceilidh.

It will be a relatively small ceremony with a large reception. Since Melissa and I have everything we need, we’ve asked people just for the pleasure of the company and if they play or sing to bring their instruments and perform. Also, if they feel they must give something we’ve asked people to make a donation to TSHA in our names. THSA is Tulsa Speech and Hearing Access (its new name).

We have friends and relatives coming from as far as California, Wisconsin, and Pennsylvania. The largest contingent outside of Oklahoma are coming from Texas. I think Melissa is going to have more people.

There’s no point in saying much of anything about our exes. One they might read this, and two they each have their own lives now. All I will say is this her ex is named Patrick and mine is named Patti which I thought was interesting enough coincidence to mention.

Back to the future. I know I marked this post Gàidhlig and there isn’t much Gaelic in it, but wasn’t sure where else to categorize it. I do want to voice my opinion on marriage.

Only the two individuals involved can marry each other, the priest, the minister, the judge, or the ship’s captain don’t marry you. They officiate. It doesn’t matter if the state, the public, or your friends and family recognize it, but it certainly doesn’t hurt. So if two individuals choose to and marry each other then no power on earth can stop it. It doesn’t matter what religion they belong to, nor race, nor sex. So the law can recognize or not. There are certain legal benefits to being recognized, but that shouldn’t stop two people even if it isn’t.

So what I’m saying, it doesn’t matter what I think of gay marriages. It only matters that the gay couple marry each other. It’s the last taboo. Multi-racial and cross-religion marriages used to be prohibited either culturally or legally. But they happen now. What about polygamous, polyandrous, or polyamorous marriages? Some societies recognize polygamy. Are they actually marriages? If I can say gay marriages are OK, why not polyamorous? I’m still thinking on that one.

Uell, tha sin uile.

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